Toolkit for Anxious Times


Jesus’ words, “Do not worry about your life”, from Matthew 6 were not spoken to people with surplus or safety. They were spoken to people living under occupation, economic exploitation, and political violence. We must not spiritualize anxiety without first telling the truth about the world.

Rooted in Matthew 6:25–34

Many are anxious because:

Money Worries & Economic Insecurity
Fear of Civil Unrest or War
Unstable Government & Political Violence
The Sense That Things Are Falling Apart

When Jesus says, “Do not worry,” He is not denying collapse.

He is offering a different anchor when structures fail.

He invites us to:
Live one day at a time when tomorrow feels unsafe
Trust that care still exists, even when systems do not
Release the belief that our hypervigilance is the only thing holding the world together

This is not passivity. This is holy resistance to despair.

Worry is not a personal failure; it is often a reasonable response to systemic instability

Jesus is not dismissing fear; He is inviting embodied trust in the midst of it

The call is not to denial, but to re-rooting our lives in daily care, dignity, and presence

This is not "don't worry, be happy" theology.
This is psychological and survival wisdom for anxious bodies.

1. Grounding Tool: Return to the Body

“Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothing?” (v.25)

When the world is unstable, anxiety pulls us into the future. Jesus gently calls us back to the body we are already in; the first place God meets us.

  • Place one hand on your chest, one on your belly

  • Ask quietly:

    • What is my body holding right now?

    • Where do I feel tight, numb, or tired?

  • No fixing. Just noticing.

Practice: Body Check-In

2. Family Preparedness Plan

Creating a plan reduces fear and protects children

Create a simple Emergency Family Plan:

  • Emergency contacts (2–3 trusted people)

  • Childcare plan (who picks up children if needed)

  • School & medical info

  • Important medications

  • Allergies & special needs

Write down:

  • Identify a temporary caregiver

  • Consider a caregiver authorization letter

  • Keep copies (not originals) of documents in a safe place

For Parents:

Reassure everyone in the family: Planning does not mean something bad will happen; it means your family is covered.

3. Document Safety Checklist

  • ID (passport, consular ID)

  • Birth certificates

  • Marriage certificates

  • Immigration paperwork (if any)

  • Medical records

  • School records for children

Store copies, not originals, in a safe place or digitally

Tip: Use a trusted person or encrypted digital storage.

4. What To Do If Someone Is Detained

  • Full name (as it appears on documents)

  • Date of birth

  • Country of origin

Act quickly but calmly

1. Write down:

2. Find out:

  • Where they are being held

  • Their A-Number (if available)

3. Contact:

  • Immigration lawyer

  • Trusted advocacy organization

4. Do not share details publicly on social media without guidance

5. Emotional & Trauma Support

Fear of deportation is chronic stress and collective trauma. It is important to practice grounding skills.

  • Put feet on the floor → name 5 things you see

  • Hand on chest → slow inhale 4 sec / exhale 6 sec

  • Whisper: "I am here. I am safe in this moment."

Grounding tools (simple + effective):

  • Keep routines

  • Avoid sharing adult fears with them

  • Reassure with presence, not promises

For children:

Normalize emotions: Fear, anger, numbness, exhaustion; these are survival responses.

6. Community Safety & Support

  • Faith communities

  • Mutual aid networks

  • Trusted community leaders

  • Support groups (in-person or virtual)

Do not go through this alone.

Encourage connection to:

Create a community phone tree for emergencies.

7. What Not To Do

  • ❌ Do not open the door without a judge-signed warrant

  • ❌ Do not run or resist

  • ❌ Do not discuss your status

  • ❌ Do not sign paperwork you don’t understand

8. Affirmation & Hope

Your life has value.

Your presence matters.

You are more than a status.

Preparation is an act of love.